Just ask. That’s the advice from Sex and Relationship Coach, Sarah McMurchie. Even if it feels awkward, just ask. It’s important to talk about sex and by extension the sexual fantasies and porn habits of both yourself and your partner. Your sexual connection with your partner is fundamental to your success as a couple. It’s…
Relationships, even good relationships, aren’t always easy. Recently my partner, Joe, had to go take care of some stuff to do with his family on the East Coast. He ended up being gone for three weeks when we originally thought he’d just be gone maybe a week tops. He had a lot to handle, and…
It was Teilhard de Chardin who said, “We are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience.” Indeed, the crux of being human is learning to balance heaven and earth: learning to balance and integrate our soul and spirit with our three-dimensional bodies and mundane life. It is…
Human beings are social creatures, and we need other people. We have a biological drive toward emotional attachment in relationships. But if this is the case, then why are relationships, especially close romantic relationships, often so difficult? One set of answers to this perennial question lies in Attachment Theory–the study of how human being form attachments. According to…
I woke up this morning with a strong realization: we are all like standing wave patterns. We–who we are, and what we represent in the world–are like standing wave patterns. Each of us has our own pattern and collectively, groups, organizations, even cities and towns, and so on have their own wave patterns made up…
If you’re honest, do you just “want to want” a relationship? Is part of you holding back, not sure if getting into a relationship is right for you? I recently talked with a woman who almost apologetically revealed that she had been half-heartedly going on dates with different men, but she was not enthusiastic about…